What’s the best excuse you’ve ever heard for being late?
“I stopped to help someone.”
It’s one of the few reasons no one argues with.
What about,
…I helped a guy push his broken-down car off the road.
…I gave a lift to a friend.
…I waited with a little girl until she found her mum.
…I helped a stranger with directions to the train station.
…I came across a car accident—no one was hurt, but I stayed with one of the drivers until their family arrived.
No one would call any of these a waste of time—even if they made you late. We instinctively recognise them for what they are: good, generous things to do.
In fact, people have lied about doing things like this just to justify being late. I’m not suggesting you do that—but it says something important. Deep down, we all agree: helping others is a good use of our time, even when it disrupts our plans.
That said, if this happens to you all the time, it’s probably best not to talk about it too much. Even good deeds can wear thin if they consistently inconvenience the same people.
It’s interesting, though—we think very differently about giving away our time compared to giving away our money.
We tend to guard our money, but spend our time freely.
And yet, we have far less time than we do money, although we waste both.
If we spent money the way we spend time, how would that impact us?
Maybe the better question is this:
What would change if we treated our time as something worth giving, rather than something we’re always trying to protect?
Because the minutes you “lose” helping someone else are rarely wasted.
They’re often the ones that matter most.
The Generosity Guy 